Thursday, August 9, 2018

The year of tri-ing new things...what are you waiting for?

Ever wanted to...fill in the blank. What have you wanted to do that you've never done before? Why haven't you tried it? What is holding you back? Is it something you don't know how, don't have the time (or think you don't), a fear you haven't overcome, something you are worried you will look silly doing? We all have those thoughts when we think about doing something new and lots of times it holds us back from something that we might actually enjoy, like or even be good at.

I have gone to new places, tried new things and overcome fears while doing them. Growing up I was a pretty shy kid and even as I became an adult, I struggled with doing new things. I remember that I wanted to fit in with any of the groups of kids in school. I got along with most everyone, that wasn't the problem, but I didn't really belong to any groups. By high school though something changed in my attitude and I got it into my head to tryout for everything, or at least it felt like that. I tried out for basketball and cheerleading, I auditioned for parts in a couple of school plays and for a solo part in chorus. I didn't get any of them, but I did act in a different part of a couple of plays and I did sing in the school chorus. Trying out for these things terrified me.  I was really disappointed that I hadn't gotten any of those things, but I can look back on and recognize that what may have seemed easy for some people, I had overcome the fear and tried.

Unfortunately by college I had lost some of that I can do this attitude. I think there are some factors that play into this, up until this point I knew most of my school mates, now I was faced with all sorts of new people, and I think as we get older the fears get larger. Now embarrassment comes into play more, the "what if I look dumb in front of these people". I had to overcome the speaking in front of a group, because we had to take speech class, I felt pretty good if I could do a speech on something I liked, but other things I was less familiar with, didn't have a passion for, was much more difficult. Most of my classes I didn't really have to face any obstacles, but two things do stick out in my mind. One class we needed to drive the school van with a boat trailer on the back and successfully drive in, turn around and back it up. I really didn't want to do that, I was scared I wouldn't be able to do it, I'd look dumb and my classmates would laugh at me. So I somehow got out of it, I think by saying I'd already done it. Now, this would have been a very handy skill to have.  The other one, was for another class where we had to perform the shoot don't shoot drill. I was absolutely terrified. I got out of that too. I kind of wish I had done that one also. Who knows, maybe I would have been good at it.

As I've gotten older, I've traveled all over the world and tried lots of things, knowing that if I didn't I'd miss out and I didn't want to miss out on something that could be a once-in-a-lifetime event. Sometimes it helps to have people around you that want to do those things too, so there is the encouragement and knowledge that you will have an experience you can share.

When I decided to become a personal trainer and group exercise instructor I needed to overcome the speaking to groups of people, cause how could I teach a class otherwise? And for certifications you are tested on doing just that. Funny thing I still get nervous sometimes, but that's okay, it just means that I really want to make sure people are getting the best out of what I have to offer.

This year I have consciously decided though that this will be the year of tri-ing new things. My first triathlon was one of those things and if you want to read about my road to triathlon I wrote about in my last post. There were lots of new things about that, but I got up my courage, trained for, completed and found the whole experience amazing! So much so I'm ready to go for it again.
I finally got a tattoo, I'd only been talking about it with my sister for years. And last weekend I finally tried paddle boarding. Yeah I know, why did it take so long? I don't know. I had wanted to try it, looked like fun. I remember when I went from canoeing to kayaking, I had actually resisted trying that. I really don't remember now why, but eventually I did it, loved it, bought a kayak and now go all the time, well as time allows. So I decided to try paddle boarding, but I decided I would do it by myself. I was afraid of falling off in front of someone. lol Silly, I know. I think my biggest fear was getting on and then standing up. So I searched on YouTube (they have everything) how to get on a paddle board, watched a couple of videos and then felt this was something I could manage. I took myself to a place that I'd gone with a friend kayaking the weekend before and rented one. The attendant had me kneel and said try it that way for a while. I did and then when I felt a bit confident, I tried standing,  I was wobbly, but managed to do it, then back to my knees. I went to a really calm section of water and went back and forth from knees to standing and sitting. I stayed out on the water for 2.5 hours! Came back home and ordered an inflatable paddle board. Oh and by the way, I never fell! I can't wait for my board to come so I can go again!


What we need to keep in mind is that all those things out there that you see other people doing, they all had to try it first. Everyone has been in the same position you are for that first time. And so you fall or trip or get scared, it's ok. You tried. I went snorkeling with manatees with someone and this person doesn't swim. This was their first time trying this. It didn't work for them, but I was proud of them for trying. Maybe it means another time it will work for them, or maybe they don't want to try again. It's okay, if they had never tried, they would have never known.
Don't let those moments pass you by, try them, who knows, maybe you'll really enjoy them and then your life will become even fuller.

Here's to trying new things!

-Lori










Monday, July 9, 2018

My road to my first triathlon



This past weekend I completed my very first triathlon! This was the inaugural Women's Philadelphia Triathlon. It was an incredible experience and I may actually compete in another one.😲
How did I get here you might ask. What made me want to  compete in a race with three disciplines? Good question. This journey actually started several years ago, like 7 I think. I was still a member at the local YMCA and had made friends with  a couple of ladies that decided we should start running races and also that if we were already doing that and swimming and spinning that we should compete in a triathlon. I was on board with that. Why not, sounded like fun. I did run my first race, an 8k with one of my friends and was signed up to do another race in New Orleans, that I ended up not doing. That was my only race I've ever not done once signed up.

Somehow the idea of doing a triathlon got lost over time. One of my friends has been consistently competing and is a triathlon rock star. I then left the Y and the triathlon idea lingered but I didn't put much effort into doing one. I continued with some small running races every year, usually one or two a year, and always 5K's until this year when I ran another 8K. I can't remember how it happened exactly, but I had started looking around for a triathlon that looked good for a newbie, that wasn't so popular that it would be full of elite competitors and that wasn't too far away. And going on the theme of not so popular, I didn't want a triathlon that I might actually know anyone competing. I know that sounds really strange, but it's that weird feeling of, I don't want someone I know to see me do something for the first time. I kind of had that same thing when people said maybe we should come see you, when I did this one and I said sure, just don't tell me until after that you are here. lol
There were a couple that sounded interesting, but I just couldn't commit. Then I happened onto this one. It sounded perfect. It was new, women only, pool swim and only 2.5-3 hours away. I signed up. I decided if I was going to race a tri this was my best option for my first one and it turned out no one I knew was going. I had also entered into the Just do it (Thanks Nike) phase of my life. My just do it things included traveling to a friends beach resort in The Dominican Republic by myself, getting my first tattoo, signing up for my first half marathon (remember my second 8K, this was the first year for that event along with a half marathon, so I decided I'll do that next year. Yikes, but I have time to train.AND doing my first triathlon.

So what did I need for a triathlon? Well fortunately I was already swimming, biking and running, and I had a swimsuit, bike and running shoes. I did decide to get a better swimsuit as the one I had was a bit stretched out and although I used goggles, hadn't used a cap before, don't laugh too hard, I put on backwards my first time 😂 I looked into joining a triathlon club, but decided that since I was only doing one, that I would just save my money and train on my own. I came up with a plan, it wasn't as aggressive as some. I know people who train for theirs by swimming, spinning, and running a couple times a week, going for at least one open water swim and also going for a long bike ride on the occasional weekend. I was doing well if I got in one or two swims, one bike ride and one run a week. I did make sure to do a couple of brick workouts, which I had to look up to understand that it just means putting two or all three things together in one workout day. So I did a swim to spin and then two bike to runs (that was hard, legs felt tired by the run). I also trained hills on my bike, and I'm glad I did as there was one this weekend. I mostly trained with music but ditched it as it closer  because rules state NO music devices allowed. This was a little challenging and is where pep talks come in or counting one two or something to stay motivated. During this training I was still trying to keep up with my strength training which if I was teaching classes made it easy, however when I wasn't I needed to make sure I got those in. Cross training is important anyway, and just as important if you are training for any other sport. I think I did pretty well with my training and realized as the race date got closer that I probably wasn't going to improve on speed, but made sure I could feel really good with distance, so I usually trained longer distances in all three. However I did need to know my rough times for each thing and based on that set a goal that I wanted to reach to complete the entire event; 1 hour 30 minutes. I was just over that by 5 minutes, I am happy with being that close to my goal. Yes, I did set a goal, I had many people say the goal could be to just finish your first one, and I understand that is a good goal, for me though, I really wanted to put a time to it.

Training by myself turned out to be fine, I do a lot of my workouts alone. I see where training with others though could be motivational and a little more fun. Especially on long bike rides or having someone to pace a run with. Swimming is solitary by nature, it's not like you can talk to the person next to you. 😀 Being part of a team or at least signing up with someone else does make the event as a whole more fun, you have others there doing the same thing as you cheering you on as you cheer them. That is one thing I would certainly change for another one. The atmosphere at this race was AWESOME! The people all cheering for everyone automatically made you a part of a group of people none of whom you knew. That's a fantastic feeling!

Leading up to race day I was getting nervous. Not entirely sure why. I had trained for this. I was comfortable with swimming, cycling and running. I think it just had to do with logistics of the event, more than the event itself. Driving up to Philadelphia, where was I going, would I get there when I wanted on Saturday for that days events? Would I know when to be where and how all the courses would go?  Fortunately they sent out a great big athlete guide that I downloaded, printed and highlighted, yes, I still highlight. It had everything in it. Any questions I didn't see an answer to, I messaged them, and they responded right away. I also watched all of their social media videos of how this would go and questions with answers. These were super helpful. It was also becoming apparent that the people putting on this event wanted the overall theme to be fun. Yes, you had to abide by certain rules, but they wanted to make sure you didn't get so stressed out that you had a bad experience (they had a psychologist there on hand if needed) and of the 1350 registered athletes, over 600 of us were new. They completely recognized this.  By race weekend I had watched these videos, read the guide more than once, and made sure I knew where I was going. I got everything packed two nights before and rechecked the bag more than once, maybe three times, making sure I had everything. I had my plan of what I was going to wear for each thing (most people in triathlon buy a tri kit that they wear for the entire thing, I didn't and I didn't need a wet suit (score!)) I practiced taking off and putting on the different pieces, so it would go as smoothly as possible come race day. I packed everything up and drove up to PA on Saturday. The traffic made the travel time a little longer than I had hoped, but I made it just in time to check in and listen to the first meeting. I missed the open swim, which was fine and the panel, which I think was fine as well. After the Q&A, I decided to take my maps and walk around getting a feel for where each event would start and finish. I also looked at the pool and went into transition where I decided I would rack my bike the night before.We were assured there would be armed guards on the premises to watch the bikes. I also figured that was one less thing I would need to worry about the next morning. After I felt comfortable with the area and what I needed to do there, I left and went to the hotel. I walked around the parking lot to figure out my route out of the parking and onto the route back to the race. My biggest worry by this time was just parking the next morning as I was still a bit unsure of exact parking places. So I decided I would get there as early as possible, which meant getting up really early, which ultimately meant going to bed really early 😐

Race day started super early, but because I went to bed early, got up early, and I got to the event early meant I had no trouble parking, one more thing not to be worried about. First thing was to check on the bike and take all my stuff (helmet, goggles, swim cap, clothes, shoes etc..) and set up in the proper spot next to the bike (you mount the bike on the rack by the seat, so stuff goes under your neighbors back tire and to the left of your front tire). By then I was chatting with the people around me and took another walk around now that more signs and barriers had been set up so I could get a better feel for how it should all go. I then went back to transition and kind of hung out until 30 minutes before the swim was to start. It was picture/selfie and chatting time. People were asking the volunteers about stuff and we got our body marking done (race number on each arm and age on the back of one calf). That made it interesting to walk around and see what everyones age was.
A half hour before the swim was to start the transition area was closed and we all made our way towards the pool. About 15 minutes before we put ourselves behind the swim time sign that best fit our time for completing 400 meters, which was then changed to 350 meters due to a lane marker challenge. And we waited until it was our turn to start the swim. I met a girl who was also doing this for the first time and said they have us jump in two at a time, want to jump in with me? She was all for that, although after we hit the water I lost her for the rest of the race. Having watched from the pool deck the chaos that was the pool swim, I figured I'd just have to do the best I could going around people. I hit the water, started my strokes and just pushed on forward, between, and around until I finished snaking my way through the pool. Arms and legs collided, and at times I had to slow or stand and wait as people got bunched up. I distinctly remember about halfway thinking to myself this is a fight or flight moment and I could understand where someone might panic as it was a bit of a mess, but I plowed my way through (as nicely as I could). I had a job to do and complete.
Once out of the pool it was time for T1 as it's called. Transitioning yourself from swim to bike. I changed clothes, put on shoes, helmet, etc and grabbed my bike and as soon as I got to the mount your bike line, I did and I was off. This is my strongest discipline. I made up time, I cruised as I could although trying to remember not to push my legs to failure cause I needed them for the run, oh right, the run. There was a gradual hill at the end, so I knew I needed to keep some energy for that. I had lost all track of time in the pool, I wasn't quite sure where I was on the bike course. As strange as it sounds I remember saying to myself, oh I've never been so happy to see a hill, cause I knew that was almost the end. As I went up the hill I tried to encourage those that were struggling. It wasn't the hardest hill, but it was still a hill. Dismount the bike at the line, T2 and time to run. Ugh! This part I had trained, this part I knew would be challenging and it was. I did keep myself running the entire way and had a better idea of my time and knew I was within my goal time. I just kept going and as the finish came in sight, oh wait, that wasn't it, and came in sight again and the crowd was cheering and as I neared the line I heard my name, I just shot off like a really slow rocket and crossed over the finish line of my first triathlon! What an accomplishment, 8 years after I said I wanted to try a tri, I had not only tried, I'd completed and in my goal time! It's an amazing feeling to complete a goal that you had created and worked hard for. I have to be honest and say after the adrenalin started to wear off I almost cried. I knew all along I could do this and I knew what my body was capable of. I knew that there were family and friends cheering for me virtually and yet it was a surreal feeling to know that I had finished. When I was swimming I didn't think of anything but getting through people without causing harm. When I was biking I had time to think and told myself that I was almost 2/3's done. When I was running I was telling myself there's one mile, done, two miles done, 3 miles done and everyone else was telling me the finish is there, keep going. I walked back to transition to collect my stuff and of all the people I talked with the day before and the day of, telling me if this was their first or third or whatever. And telling me like Sarah, who jumped into the pool with me that she was runner and thought why not learn to swim and do a triathlon, or even the lady that said, I backed out of the swimming this time and will do the duathlon, and the triathlon next year. Of all those people the one lady that summed everything up for me and should be the message for everyone out there that wants to do something for themselves was a woman who said, I do everything for everyone else, my kids, my husband, my family, friends, my job, and I did this for me. It's my first triathlon and I don't remember the last time I felt like this. I did this! I said yes, you did and you did it for you! Way to go!
We congratulated each other and moved on.

This accomplishment was a long time coming, but I did it and so can you. It doesn't matter if it's a triathlon, marathon, going to the gym, vacationing by yourself, whatever goal you create. Remember you can do it, you can do anything! Live a can do, just do it life! Live a for me life! A this is my one shot life! Life is a gift, it can be long, or short. Do with it what you can in the time you are given. I'm so thankful for the opportunities I'm given in order to make the most of this gift.

Will I do another triathlon? Most likely there will be another one in my future, but for now, I train for the half marathon next year that I talked myself into signing up for. Why? Because I can!

Love and gratitude,
Lori

















Wednesday, May 9, 2018

oops...Kind of let this fall by the wayside...now I'm back!




Hi all,
Yeah life happens and we have those things that we were once diligent about that we let slip away because other more pressing things take all of our attention. That would be this blog for me. I'm back and will try and keep this up more often. What has been taking all of my time these days? Training, clients, classes and coming up with all sorts of kick ass activities for the summer. So what activities are coming up? So glad you asked. Because You Can Fitness is now holding weekly pool classes on Sunday mornings at 10 am, and we have our first Doggie and Me Bootcamp and Brunch Sunday May 20 at 10AM in SWDC at the waterfront park. We just held a Sweatn' to the 80's dance party and workout and will most likely repeat or run one with music from another dance decade. Of course there are ongoing bootcamp classes on Wednesday nights at 6pm and virtual classes on Sunday nights at 5pm and Thursday evenings at 6pm.
I will be scheduling more outings as the summer progresses so stay tuned.
I'm also squeezing in my own training as I'll be competing in my first triathlon in early July. 😱😮 Okay it won't be that scary, just new.

I hope to see you during one or more of the classes and activities this summer. You'll have a blast!

Now I can't close without giving you a workout, no excuses!

Warm-up 5-10 min

Repeat the following as a circuit 3-5 times 12-15 repetitions for each exercise

Body weight squats
High knees
Walking lunges
Butt kicks
Triceps dips
Jumping Jacks
Pushups
Mountain climbers
Bicycle crunch

Enjoy!

Cheers,
Lori

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Monday, March 5, 2018

Ready for a 4-week-3-circuit workout?

We did a 5-day circuit challenge last month with 10 exercises repeated each day until you were doing five sets on the last day. This time we are doing a 3-circuit workout, 1 time a week for the next 4 weeks. 3 sets of each circuit. This circuit includes boxing, lower body, cardio, upper body and core. Phew! It has it all!
Circuit training is a great way to maximize your workout and minimize the time. By working through each exercise with little to know rest, you'll get through several exercises in less time than a typical workout session. This type of training also keeps your heart rate up as well as your muscles engaged to promote overall fitness. Circuit training builds your cardiovascular health, endurance, and provides more fat and calorie burning than some of the traditional strength training workouts. It also fights boredom moving from one exercise to the next. So are you ready to get started? Me too!

Warmup 5-10 min
*Punch like you mean it please*

Circuit 1
Right jab, Left jab-right & left is one rep-15 reps
Left jab, right jab-left & right is one rep-15 reps
Squat, punch, punch-15 reps
Jump rope-30 seconds
Speed bag-30 seconds
Knee up, punch across Right knee up punch over with the left arm, left knee up, punch over with the right arm-20 reps

Repeat 2 more times

Circuit 2
Right jab, right cross-15 reps
Left jab, left cross-15 reps
Squat right front kick, squat left front kick-16 reps
Back lunge-knee up, right then left alternating-16 reps
Jumping jacks-30 seconds
Standing toe touches-20 reps

Repeat 2 more times

Circuit 3
Biceps curls-15 reps
Triceps extension-15 reps
Pushups-12-15 reps
Mountain climbers-30 seconds
Bicycle crunch-20 reps
Crunch and punch over the knees-12-15 reps

Stretch

You can do it! Post your progress in the comments section below or on the Facebook page.


Yours in Fitness,
Lori








Friday, February 2, 2018

5-Day Body Blast Challenge



Hello Fitness Friends,
Ready for a new workout challenge? You all said yes, right? ;) I thought so. I'm ready too! I've put together a 5-day full body circuit challenge below. To keep it simple you will only need a mat. The idea is to go through all the exercises, one right after the other with little to no rest in between. The first day you do the circuit once, the second twice and so on, so by day 5 you go through the full circuit five times. Do rest in between each round and modify as needed. This challenge is not meant to be done on back to back days, try every other day or every two days.

Circuit training is a great way to maximize your workout and minimize the time. By working through each exercise with little to know rest, you'll get through several exercises in less time than a typical workout session. This type of training also keeps your heart rate up as well as your muscles engaged to promote overall fitness. Circuit training builds your cardiovascular health, endurance, and provides more fat and calorie burning than some of the traditional strength training workouts. It also fights boredom moving from one exercise to the next. So are you ready to get started? Me too!

Warm up

10 squats
10 walking lunges
20 jumping jacks
20 mountain climbers
10 pushups
10 triceps dips
20 high knees
20 butt kicks
20 bicycle crunches
30 sec plank

Stretch

I know you are up for this challenge. Let me know how you are doing either in the comments below or on the BYC FB page: https://www.facebook.com/BYCLoriMurphy/

You can do it!
Yours in fitness,
Lori


Friday, January 12, 2018

Happy New Year!

Congratulations to all of you who took on and completed the 10-day Holiday Healthy Lifestyle Challenge! I know it may not have been easy, but you did it! The challenge was designed to keep you exercising, give you healthy nutrition tips and help you slow down during what can be the crazy days of the holiday season. I hope you were able to take some of what you did and learned and put together a healthy lifestyle plan for 2018!

We are just two weeks into the new year, have you stayed on course with your new year's resolution or has it fallen by the wayside already? No worries we have a whole year to make goals and commit to them. My suggestion is to start small and let it grow as time goes on. Don't get discouraged; as they say Rome wasn't built in a day.
Remember making a change; eating more healthy, exercising more, slowing down and enjoying more time doing what you love, takes time. First you take small steps, adding that one healthy item to your diet, or taking something out. Going to the gym at least one day a week; on your own, meeting with a trainer or taking a class. Taking one hour of quiet time or doing something you enjoy will help you slow down, be mindful and give you some time just for you. As you get comfortable with this, you can build on it and before you know it you are meeting and exceeding the goals/resolutions you set for yourself.

I don't really make resolutions, but I do set goals and the funny thing about goals they can change over time. I had a goal years ago to start doing triathlons, then I started doing all sorts of other fitness things that I didn't put much focus on that goal. I started thinking about it again last year and as happened before, although this is something I still want to accomplish, I've changed my focus yet again and decided I want to complete longer running races first, so here I come 10K's and Half Marathons!

Another of my goals is to focus more of my attention to my fitness business, so I will be coming up with more activities, classes and workshops this year (to help you meet your goals) And I have made it easier for you to pay for these online so you don't have to worry about cash or a checkbook. Check out my page and sign up today! http://www.becauseyoucanfitness.com/services.html


Your challenge for the rest of January is to make or recommit to your resolutions or goals that you stated as 2018 was being rung in.
To help you, list these in the comments section below.

Here's to a fantastic 2018!

Yours in fitness,
Lori











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